Thursday, May 7, 2015

Boundaries


Personal Boundaries


I will never lie to myself about my feelings, thoughts, or desires. I demand personal space and time to deal with any issues that are affecting my ability to function on a daily basis. I will not live in the past, the past doesn't determine the person I currently am, or the person I'm working to become. When it comes to my personal growth, I will listen to my heart, do what my soul dictates, and I will not regret any choices I've made that has made me the person that I am now. Being healthy is important, do nothing that become detrimental to your progress or success. Avoid being bored or complacent these attributes result in negative results that cause internal anguish and bipolar episodes.

Friendship / Relationship Boundaries:

Once you’re my friend or more you must be completely & brutally honest with me. No longer will I have people in my life that aren't up front with me. I ask for privacy, respect, trust, kindness, and care. My goal and dreams come first, once I'm committed to a direction I will not alter my course for anyone unless it’s detrimental to a current goal that I'm working towards. If I'm having an episode, I ask for latitude, understanding, privacy, and encouragement and not to feel alone. You have my unlimited support, motivation, and encouragement no matter the choice you make in your life. I'll always be there for you. The friendship or relationship must be fair... I will not do all the work, if you're in my life you have to be in my life. At any point, I feel someone is being overtly negative to someone I care for; I have the right to end the friendship or relationship.

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