Correcting bad decisions are never easy to do, in fact its supposed to be extremely painful to deal with. I'd like to consider it a moment of contrition for the unethical decisions that I made in 2009 & 2010. See, shit doesn't just happen, shit takes time to develop and happen. And I've been in some serious shit for a long period of time, however... I don't ever want to play like I didn't realize the Titanic or Foundation in my life wasn't sinking or didn't have a crack in it. In fact, I'd even go so far as to say I caused it by being naive and thinking that the decisions I made would be benecifical for me in the long run.
As of this year... I can guarantee you... I WAS WRONG!
So if a situation is flawed how do you correct it, well if you're on a boat you can either try to patch the hole in order to stay afloat alittle while longer, or you can get into a lifeboat and try to make it to shore. However both scenario will change based on how far you are from the shore or land... if you're too far from land... you can try to patch the hole but eventually the ship will sink anyway its just a matter of time. So, your best bet is to find a lifeboat that will keep you uncomfortable but you'll be secure, and you'll live.
It's about finding that middle ground in your life so you can fix the flaws and get things on the right track. Acknowledging the cracks and being brutally honest about it is the 1st Step because you can't just continue to be naive about the direction your life is going in. If your situation sucks... admit it sucks... and get some help. Because let's admit it... no one will know you're sinking if you don't cry out for help. I've been crying for help since I got into this mess, and yes, I've heard many suggestions and thankfully I'm one of those guys that doesn't have a problem listening to great sound advice. So yes, the 1st Step is to admit it, and then seek help for it.
The next step is basically working to identify the cracks, but we'll save that for the next blog.
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