It's just what it sounds like... time to redefine friendships, relationships, careers, finances, music, and educational directions. I'm going to take the lead on this, and simply take back what has been stolen from my life. I'm in my 30's and still dealing with too many emotional vampires. People are generally good at heart, but at times I sense their emotions can blind them to the reality of things. Our frustrations and desires for change can cause many difficulties and problems.